In jewish communities is there a greater deal of support and tolerance which makes living a jewish life easier?

by this i mean in comparison to secular society if you want something you have to work for it and people will help you out, they will not quite happily bail you out if you run out of money, whereas in jewish society there is an almost open door policy whereby the whole community whereby people quite happily lend things to each other and there would be no shame in knocking on a neighbors door to ask for help with buying food or looking after children which there isn't in secular society